、　　　人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。

　　与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说自己的修养不够。

　　如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也**不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。

　　好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。

　　不宽恕众生，不原谅众生，是苦了你自己。

　　别说别人可怜，自己更可怜，自己修行又如何?自己又懂得人生多少?

　　学佛是对自己的良心交待，不是做给别人看的。

　　福报不够的人，就会常常听到是非;福报够的人，从来就没听到过是非。

　　修行是点滴的工夫。

　　在顺境中修行，**不能成佛。

　　你**要感谢给你逆境的众生。

　　你随时要认命，因为你是人。

　　你**要宽恕众生，不论他有多坏，甚至他伤害过你，你一定要放下，才能得到真正的快乐。

　　这个**本来就是痛苦的，没有例外的。

　　当你快乐时，你要想，这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时你要想这痛苦也不是永恒的。

　　认识自己，降伏自己，改变自己，才能改变别人。

　　今日的执著，会造成明日的后悔。

　　你可以拥有爱，但不要执著，因为分离是必然的。

　　不要浪费你的生命在你一定会后悔的地方上。

　　你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。

　　内心没有分别心，就是真正的苦行。
“Good lack!” broke out Sir Oliver. “Who asks your sanction or Sir John’s? By God’s grace your sister will grow to be a woman soon and mistress of herself. I am in no desperate haste to get me wed, and by nature — as you may be observing — I am a wondrous patient man. I’ll even wait,” And he pulled at his pipe.

“Waiting cannot avail you in this, Sir Oliver. ’Tis best you should understand. We are resolved, Sir John and I.”

“Are you so? God’s light. Send Sir John to me to tell me of his resolves and I’ll tell him something of mine. Tell him from me, Master Godolphin, that if he will trouble to come as far as Penarrow I’ll do by him what the hangman should have done long since. I’ll crop his pimpish ears for him, by this hand!”

“Meanwhile,” said Master Godolphin whettingly, “will you not essay your rover’s prowess upon me?”

“You?” quoth Sir Oliver, and looked him over with good-humoured contempt. “I’m no butcher of fledgelings, my lad. Besides, you are your sister’s brother, and ’tis no aim of mine to increase the obstacles already in my path.” Then his tone changed. He leaned across the table. “Come, now, Peter. What is at the root of all this matter? Can we not compose such differences as you conceive exist? Out with them. ’Tis no matter for Sir John. He’s a curmudgeon who signifies not a finger’s snap. But you, ’tis different. You are her brother. Out with your plaints, then. Let us be frank and friendly.