、　　　不要活在过去的阴影里，把每天当作 人生 的新一天，生活才会多彩多姿。

　　放弃谁都可以，千万不要放弃自己!

　　一生中错过多少次，就像昨夜下了一场雨，而我却在睡梦中。

　　生命不可轮回，如果有真心爱你的人，请无条件地对他好，但切记，不要把他对你的好当成一种习惯，并且理所应当地接受。

　　我什么也没忘，但是有些事只适合收藏。不能说，也不能想，却又不能忘。

　　生命是一种缘，感情也是，你刻意追求的东西或许终生得不到，而你不曾期待的灿烂反而会在你的淡泊从容中不期而至。你期待某件东西，在你得到了，那是一种快乐。然而相对地，当你失去的时候也会感受到等量的悲伤。得到时是八分快乐，失去也会有八分的痛苦，那个总数几乎是一样的。

　　得按你想的去生活，否则，你迟早会按你生活的去想。

　　在短暂的人生岁月中，谁都会碰到生离死别的揪心事。伤心和委屈的时候，要嚎啕大哭。哭完洗完脸，拍拍自己的脸，挤出一个微笑给自己看。不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。好好生活，千万别干傻事，你的生命只有一次!。坦白地说，有许多人希望你会被自己的错误所击败。每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。

　　真正的自由是在无所依傍之时，发现无路而处处是路。能行到水穷处，坐看云起时的人才算得上自由。这不是路的缘故，是心路。
Sir Oliver Tressilian sat at his ease in the lofty dining-room of the handsome house of Penarrow, which he owed to the enterprise of his father of lamented and lamentable memory and to the skill and invention of an Italian engineer named Bagnolo who had come to England half a century ago as one of the assistants of the famous Torrigiani.

This house of such a startlingly singular and Italianate grace for so remote a corner of Cornwall deserves, together with the story of its construction, a word in passing.

The Italian Bagnolo who combined with his salient artistic talents a quarrelsome, volcanic humour had the mischance to kill a man in a brawl in a Southwark tavern. As a result he fled the town, nor paused in his headlong flight from the consequences of that murderous deed until he had all but reached the very ends of England. Under what circumstances he became acquainted with Tressilian the elder I do not know. But certain it is that the meeting was a very timely one for both of them. To the fugitive, Ralph Tressilian — who appears to have been inveterately partial to the company of rascals of