、　　　　成功的人之所以成功，靠得是实力和洞察力。失败的人之所以失败，是因为他们做事一开始就抱有侥幸的心理，而不是通过现象看本质，然后找到解决的方案。

　　房子修得再大也是临时住所，只有那个小木匣才是**的家，所以，屋宽不如心宽，身安不如心安!

　　**的错误，是用换取身外之物，人生**的，是用换取个人的，人生**的浪费，是用生命解决自己制造的麻烦!

　　人生**的哀痛，是子欲孝而亲不在!人生**的悲剧，是家未富而人先亡，人生**的可怜，是弥留之际才明白自己是应该做什么的!

　　当趋于平静时，便是!把降到**点，把理性到**高点，你会感受到：平安是福，清心是禄，寡欲是寿!

　　拉开窗帘，迎接新的一天。苦和甜来自外界，体味幸福则来自内心。

　　生活中总会有伤害你的人，你千万别生气，生气是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。在这个**上，我们常感到世态炎凉;经常被人利用又被践踏;常有人粉面含春威不露，讨好你又出卖你
y nature Sir Oliver was a shrewd fellow (“cunning as twenty devils,” is my Lord Henry’s phrase) and he was also a man of some not inconsiderable learning. Yet neither his natural wit nor his acquired endowments appear to have taught him that of all the gods that rule the destinies of mankind there is none more ironic and malicious than that same Dan Cupid in whose honour, as it were, he was now burning the incense of that pipe of his. The ancients knew that innocent-seeming boy for a cruel, impish knave, and they mistrusted him. Sir Oliver either did not know or did not heed that sound piece of ancient wisdom. It was to be borne in upon him by grim experience, and even as his light pensive eyes smiled upon the sunshine that flooded the terrace beyond the long mullioned window, a shadow fell athwart it which he little dreamed to be symbolic of the shadow that was even falling across the sunshine of his life.

After that shadow came the substance — tall and gay of raiment under a broad black Spanish hat decked with blood-red plumes. Swinging a long beribboned cane the figure passed the windows, stalking deliberately as Fate.

The smile perished on Sir Oliver’s lips. His swarthy face grew thoughtful, his black brows contracted until no more than a single deep furrow stood between them. Then slowly the smile came forth again, but no longer that erstwhile gentle pensive smile. It was transformed into a smile of resolve and determination, a smile that tightened his lips even as his brows relaxed, and invested his brooding eyes with a gleam that was mocking, crafty and almost wicked.